Last night, Joy was having a hard time settling down for bed. She wanted just one more story, just one more song, just one more... and when I said no, she started to cry. I said, "I'm going to have to shut this door, you can open it when you're finished." Through her tears, she said, "I'm not crying because I'm mad at you! I'm crying because I'm sorry!" How does this child break my heart so? I went in and we had a talk and were OK again, until I was getting ready to leave without another story or another ... she was calling from her bedroom, "PLEEEEASE mom PLEEEEASE. I don't want to have to get in another argument!"