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Random Acts of Neighborly Kindness

by Theresa Carpine8/6/2009 11:21:52 AM

When you're outside this summer, have fun getting to know your neighbors.

Summer means backyard BBQs, time working in the garden, and sitting on the front porch drinking coffee in the morning and iced tea in the afternoon. All that time outside might give you and your family more chances to get to know your neighbors, if you don’t already.

Take a look a few ideas that will help you and your kids spread goodwill in your community, especially in the summer.

Set Up a “Cool Zone”

When the weather gets really hot, set up a table in your front yard under a tree, a canopy tent, or umbrellas so neighborhood kids playing outside can take a break in the shade. Keep a few bottles of sunscreen on hand for convenient reapplication throughout the day. Stock up on spray bottles for misting and water balloons for games that will keep kids cool, too.

Say Hello with Baked Goods

Everyone loves a sweet treat now and then, so spend some time baking cookies, brownies, or muffins with the kids and bring over a paper plate full of goodies to your neighbors. Write a short message on the plate with a Sharpie to share any family news (new pets, upcoming vacations, involvement on a sport team, etc.) that your neighbors can discover while they eat your yummy snacks. Just make sure you’re aware of family food allergies, gluten-intolerance, or other dietary concerns before the baking begins.

Look Out for One Another

There’s a difference between being a nosy neighbor and truly caring about the people in your community. If you’re aware of the addition of a new baby, an unexpected illness or injury, or another kind of family conflict in your neighbors’ lives, lend a hand by pitching in with the small things. Share your family’s lawn care or handyman services occasionally. Let them know when you’re heading to the market and offer to pick up any groceries they need to save them a trip. Freeze a casserole so they can have a no-hassle meal when they really need it. Even if they don’t take you up on the offer, they’ll appreciate the effort and your kids will learn that a little bit of kindness can go a long way.

How do you cultivate community in your neighborhood? Tell us in the comments below or share your story in the Forum.

A Note About the Author: Theresa Carpine

Theresa Carpine graduated from WWU in 2006 with a BA in English Literature. She enjoys yoga, listening to music, riding her bike in downtown Bellingham, and babysitting really cute kids.